"Two lesbians raised a baby and this is what they got"

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All that I ever want any parent or parents to do is to love their child or children unconditionally and be there for support and guidance; whether it is man, man, woman, woman or woman and/or man. There are too many people who are not there for their children growing up (men and women alike), obviously these two women where there for their son. Can you honestly say that if your son or daughter came out and said they were gay/lesbian you would stop loving them? What if they wanted to get married? What if they wanted to raise a child? It is 2011, almost 2012 people, get with the times. Get out from under your rock and accept people for who they are, not who what they are or who they choose to love. Does it affect you? Is this son, raised by two women going to be a burden on society? Most defiently not, I believe he will do great things and be an asset to society. So who cares who raised him? If you think this is wrong, you are very closed minded. What would you do if your child followed in the foot steps of these women and raised a son like him? Would you be ashamed? Proud? Would you love them?

The two girl friends of mine who are married and now raising a son...................choose to love, care, raise, nuture this little brand new baby boy.........otherwise he was going to wind up a ward of the system...as the one's sister has issues and foster care was ready to step in and take the baby as soon as he was born...........to me better to be raised by family !!! Kudo's to them!!!! And I totally agree with you April it's the kids that matter here..........................I chose to get out of an abusive marriage as I didn't want my son growing up in a home like that, thinking it's ok to hit women and repeating the pattern, after I started divorce proceedings my ex took off with his tail between his legs..........stopped using his court order visitation and has not seen his son in over 10 years now, I have full custody. Is it wrong my husband now has taken in my son as his own, loves him as his own, treats him as his own............................HELL NO!!!! Don't matter who fathered or mothered a child, if they are in a loving home and enviroment and are cared for and loved, That's what matters !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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I have two good friends (ladies) whom are married and have recently been given a son to raise..................I truly hope he makes them as proud of him as this young man has...............good for him. Times have changed and the world needs to get with it !!!!

The world needs to get with it eh!
Talke about closed minded BS, but interesting you have internet service while camped out in Edmonton.
Tell you what, there are a lot of us who are getting sick and tired with the bull $ch!t people like you like to spew, and that WE the majority are just plain wrong, bigoted or close minded.
Its really quite simple; just because you want to embrace some warm and fuzzy fad where two dykes are "given" a child, likes it's a new pet, doesn't mean the rest of us need to suscribe to the same crap.
Like we need a few more fawked up head cases to support with counciling or gender reassignment because they don't know which way they swing. How's that for getting with it?
 

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I think if you were to do an accurate poll there would be more people who passionately support the right than those who are passionately against it and the rest of us could give a fawk... what people choose to do behind closed doors is nobodies business but their own.... I have my own bias and will admit that it is unjustified but I can't help it, it's how I feel.... If my daughter turned out gay I'd be alright with it, I'd have a rougher time if the boy were, but if I had to I'd deal with it and support him as my son... You are 100% entitled to your own opinion but when you publicly denounce someone else's choice or genetic make-up (whichever you believe) THAT is what makes a bigot... and I disagree that you represent the majority..

Just sayin...

The world needs to get with it eh!
Talke about closed minded BS, but interesting you have internet service while camped out in Edmonton.
Tell you what, there are a lot of us who are getting sick and tired with the bull $ch!t people like you like to spew, and that WE the majority are just plain wrong, bigoted or close minded.
Its really quite simple; just because you want to embrace some warm and fuzzy fad where two dykes are "given" a child, likes it's a new pet, doesn't mean the rest of us need to suscribe to the same crap.
Like we need a few more fawked up head cases to support with counciling or gender reassignment because they don't know which way they swing. How's that for getting with it?
 

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The world needs to get with it eh!
Talke about closed minded BS, but interesting you have internet service while camped out in Edmonton.
Tell you what, there are a lot of us who are getting sick and tired with the bull $ch!t people like you like to spew, and that WE the majority are just plain wrong, bigoted or close minded.


Wtf? Really buddy? This is what gets you fired up and hot under the collar??? LMFAO, just wonder if you put this much passion into other areas of life or more important things, why has this struck such a nerve for you? Are you hiding a secret?? Let people live there life's and people should have a right to do what ever makes them happy???
 

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The world needs to get with it eh!
Talke about closed minded BS, but interesting you have internet service while camped out in Edmonton.
Tell you what, there are a lot of us who are getting sick and tired with the bull $ch!t people like you like to spew, and that WE the majority are just plain wrong, bigoted or close minded.
Its really quite simple; just because you want to embrace some warm and fuzzy fad where two dykes are "given" a child, likes it's a new pet, doesn't mean the rest of us need to suscribe to the same crap.
Like we need a few more fawked up head cases to support with counciling or gender reassignment because they don't know which way they swing. How's that for getting with it?
How you gonna feel when one of your own kids claims gay.................seriously you are an embarassment here!!! Least kids are being loved and cared for and not in the foster system..................
 

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How you gonna feel when one of your own kids claims gay.................seriously you are an embarassment here!!! Least kids are being loved and cared for and not in the foster system..................
How you gonna feel? who gives a rats a$$ what your feelings are.
Do you have a position you can stand by in life or are you just worried about feelings?
Embarassment, really, thats the best logical comeback you have. Your friends get "given" a new pet rock and now all of a sudden you equate that to being loved and cared for. WOW, what a stretch.
Wonderful eutopian pedestal you have set them on. But really, if thats you belief, go hard girl and stand by that to the end.
 

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wowie Oldtrick! Your name says it all.... OLD. Take a poll I can almost guarantee most people would choose they do not care or that they support this. Would you rather that baby to go or come from and stay with an abusive (sexually, mentally, emotionally and physically) family? Or go to a loving family who may not have had the physical option to have a child? No matter if it is woman/man, woman/woman, or man/man. Who they hell cares just as long as that lil guy is being looked after. Talk about pet rocks... how about we take a look at a lot of the teen moms who decide to have a baby cause they're cute?! Cause they're cute.... and that's their only reason, then they can't work, can't finish school, go on welfare, live in subsidied housing that we tax payers pay out the ass for? Is that right? (sorry if there are any teen moms on here, wasn't directing it at you, just using an example! :) Oldtrick, if you have any kids, I can see they will grow up to be bullies, they will bully all the children who are undecided, hiding or don't know what or who they are. Thus perpetuating the sky rocketing child suicide rate due to bullying. (look at the news a few days ago) I have seen first hand at work what a bully can do, a 10 year old kid shot off his own face in an attempt to kill himself due to bullying. TEN! We should be teaching our kids to accept everyone and anyone not for what they are but for WHO they are!!
 

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The world needs to get with it eh!
Talke about closed minded BS, but interesting you have internet service while camped out in Edmonton.
Tell you what, there are a lot of us who are getting sick and tired with the bull $ch!t people like you like to spew, and that WE the majority are just plain wrong, bigoted or close minded.
Its really quite simple; just because you want to embrace some warm and fuzzy fad where two dykes are "given" a child, likes it's a new pet, doesn't mean the rest of us need to suscribe to the same crap.
Like we need a few more fawked up head cases to support with counciling or gender reassignment because they don't know which way they swing. How's that for getting with it?

You disgust me !!!! This child has been given the opportunity to be raised by family members, not the foster system. Kids these days are taught to accept other's as they are, no matter color, race, religion................and sexual choices. By the look of your comments............keep your head burried in the sand, cause your mouth ain't doing ya no good !!!!
 

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You disgust me !!!! This child has been given the opportunity to be raised by family members, not the foster system. Kids these days are taught to accept other's as they are, no matter color, race, religion................and sexual choices. By the look of your comments............keep your head burried in the sand, cause your mouth ain't doing ya no good !!!!
Maybe oldtrick is his street name[Crack whore]and he had a bad excperiance[got man handled]give him time, sounds like he's having trouble coming out,Dude you ride a polaris whats gayer then that.J/K stop talking your making me MORE prouder of my ''lesbian'' sister EVERYTIME YOU REPLIE thank god shes not with a douche like YOU.Lol NOT!
 

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This thread is starting to head South.
Let's try to stay on topic, without the bashing please.
 

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The world needs to get with it eh!Talke about closed minded BS, but interesting you have internet service while camped out in Edmonton. Tell you what, there are a lot of us who are getting sick and tired with the bull $ch!t people like you like to spew, and that WE the majority are just plain wrong, bigoted or close minded.Its really quite simple; just because you want to embrace some warm and fuzzy fad where two dykes are "given" a child, likes it's a new pet, doesn't mean the rest of us need to suscribe to the same crap.Like we need a few more fawked up head cases to support with counciling or gender reassignment because they don't know which way they swing. How's that for getting with it?
We the majority? Majority of people wearing pillowcases for hats maybe.
 

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The world needs to get with it eh!
Talke about closed minded BS, but interesting you have internet service while camped out in Edmonton.
Tell you what, there are a lot of us who are getting sick and tired with the bull $ch!t people like you like to spew, and that WE the majority are just plain wrong, bigoted or close minded.
Its really quite simple; just because you want to embrace some warm and fuzzy fad where two dykes are "given" a child, likes it's a new pet, doesn't mean the rest of us need to suscribe to the same crap.
Like we need a few more fawked up head cases to support with counciling or gender reassignment because they don't know which way they swing. How's that for getting with it?
Funny........sitting in my nice warm house in Wetaskiwin!!!! Really alot of you.........hummmmmmmm you seem to be the only one here spouting off............a child is not a friggin pet, a child is a gift and no matter how they got here...........as long as they have some parents to raise and love them, teach them right from wrong who cares if they are the same sex !!!!!!! I certainly know I would back my son if he came out so to speak............he's my son, my flesh and blood. We teach our kids to accept people for themselves, religion, color.........why not sexual preference !!!!!! Frigg times have changed !!!!! Maybe your heads been in the sand too long, cut off too much oxygen !!!!!!!!!
 

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After reading through all these posts and some of the right winged bigotry views just makes me wonder why I live in Alberta. Born and raised here and I freaking love Alberta, biggest problem is it's painted with a blue friggen brush. This post was started with good intentions, because a very well spoken young man wanted to support his parents for their belief in same sex marriage/union. I for one DO NOT believe in marriage whether it be same sex or opposite sex. As it was stated earlier, its a piece of friggen paper....who cares get over it!!

As for the debate on whether its a choice, or a lifestyle?? HAH, yeah NOT!! Or there wouldn't be an alarming rate of pre-teens and teens committing suicide, for why on earth would a person CHOOSE such a difficult way to live!?!?!?! Sorry to burst your bubble but it is true!!

I was surprising to read quite a few posts regarding positive views, way to go!!

But all in all I am with Mudd Kitty, I hate everyone equally!! hahahahahaha
 

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It boils down to this, there are some people who will with their last dying breath, denounce any who are different. That is their right. We don't have to listen to it if we don't want to. This thread was started by someone who is very impressed by a young man who, was in my mind, is very eloquent in his passion for his family. Family is family no matter what the make up is. There is a "perfect" family out there with 2.3 kids, a mom and a dad who all love each other and are just wonderful. They are very few and far between. Some people are just too juvenile to let people be what they are. There are far more important problems in life to deal with. Good on those two women to raise a fine young man, and good on anyone else with the courage to raise a family and to guide the children right no matter what their sexual orientation be. JMHO
 
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